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Why I used a private community instead of a marketplace

Started by leafy_contusion • November 05, 2026 • 17 replies
leafy_contusion

I own a small manufacturing biz doing about $4M rev. When I decided to sell, I looked at the usual marketplaces and immediately felt like a piece of meat. Brokers calling nonstop, tire-kickers, my financials floating around who knows where. So I joined a private community of owners and advisors instead. Took longer, but the buyer I ended up with came through a trusted intro. Curious if others have gone this route or if I'm just a control freak.

blistered_trowel

Nah, you're not a control freak. Marketplaces are a race to the bottom for anything under $10M. Private network is the only way to keep your sanity.

mrs_sunday

How do you even find these private communities? Every time I search I end up on a forum that's just brokers pretending to be owners.

leafy_contusion

Honestly it was a crapshoot. One was a paid mastermind that was mostly recycld LinkedIn content. The one that worked was invite-only through a peer group I'd been in for years. Slow burn.

cinderblock_ham

Private community = 12 months of 'just circling back' emails and one guy who ghosted after signing an LOI. Marketplace = 200 tire kickers in 3 weeks. Pick your poison.

blistered_trowel

That ghosting thing is real though. Had a private buyer string me along for 6 months then vanish. At Least on a marketplace you know everyone's a vulture from day one.

onward_hoe

What was the actual advantage for you? Better price or just less hassle?

leafy_contusion

Both, sort of. Price wasn't a home run but the terms were clean and the buyer knew the industry. No earnout circus. I think the trust part saved me at least 3 months of legal back and forth.

mrs_sunday

3 months of legal bills is real money. What did the private community cost you though? Memberships aren't free.

leafy_contusion

One was $6k/year and worthless. The peer group was $1,200/year but I'd been in it for 4 years before selling. So the real cost was patience, not cash.

grit_and_grid

Interesting thread. I'm on the buy side and I actually prefer private networks. Marketplaces are full of sellers with unrealistic numbers and brokers who don't know the business. Half the time I'm explaining their own operations to them.

cinderblock_ham

lol the broker explaining the business to me while getting the product name wrong. classic.

blistered_trowel

The problem with private is you only get one shot at a buyer who might be a flake. Marketplace gives you volume. Volume lets you walk away from bad deals. Private network doesn't always have that luxury.

onward_hoe

Maybe it's less about private vs marketplace and more about how you vet the buyer. A bad actor is a bad actor no matter where you meet them.

leafy_contusion

That's fair. I probably got lucky with the intro. Though I'll say the private route filtered out the obvious time wasters before they ever reached me. Nobody in that group was going to introduce a guy who wasn't serious.

grit_and_grid

Those intros are worth something, honestly. On a marketplace I have zero social cost for wasting your time. In a private group, if I jerk a seller around, word gets back and my reputation in that circle is done

mrs_sunday

So the real product is accountability. Interesting.

cinderblock_ham

Accountability and a monthly invoice. Anyway I'm still going marketplace for my plumbing supply place, I don't have 4 years to wait for the perfect intro.

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