Post-Sale

Managing a lump sum check after selling

Started by quietstorm42 • November 04, 2026 • 9 replies
quietstorm42

We closed last month and the wire just hit. I've never seen that many zeros in my own account. Everyone told me I'd feel relieved, but honestly I feel paralyzed. I have a meeting with a wealth manager next week but I don't even know what to ask. What did you all do in the first 30-60 days after the money landed?

copperkettle88

First thing I did was nothing. Seriously. Parked it in a money market and didn't touch it for six weeks. Best decision I made.

mossybank

I second the parking idea. The worst thing you can do is let someone talk you into a complex product while you're still emotionally fried from the sale. I had a guy pitch me a private REIT three days after closing. Glad I waited.

juniper_loop

What kind of wealth manager? Is he a fiduciary? That matters more than whatever he pitches you.

copperkettle88

Also get a tax person involved early. I didn't and ended up scrambling in Q4. The lump sum changes your whole bracket situation for the year.

quietstorm42

He says he's a fiduciary. But I'll ask for it in writing. And I hadn't even thought about the tax timing, so thanks for that.

leafonthewind

Honestly the most useful thing for me was writing down what the money is *for* before I invested invested a dime. Retirement, kids, a cushion, maybe a small business later. Once I had that on paper the decisions got a lot less scary.

mossybank

Careful with the 'small business later' idea. I know two guys who rolled most of their proceeds into a new venture and regretted it. Not saying don't, just saying that's not a lump-sum management decision, that's a whole new job.

juniper_loop

Does your manager charge a flat fee or a percentage of assets? Because on a cheeck that size the percentage adds up fast.

quietstorm42

Percentage. I'm going to ask about flat fee options now. This has been more useful than the reading I've done all week.

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